THE DELILAH STRATEGY:HOW TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND

For years now many pulpiteers and preachers have condemned Delilah as a prostitute and the one responsible for the ruining of the great man Samson.Of course she did.But then, I have this question for them: What made Samson keep coming back to Delilah even though he knew she wanted to find out the secret of his strength?

Could it have been just sex? I doubt. This is because there were prostitutes that Samson slept with but still went away.Or could it be that Delilah was the most beautiful girl in Philistine? I doubt that too.

I personally think that Delilah knew HOW TO KEEP HER MAN AT HOME.How to make a man return back to her laps.

Here are few secrets I guessed she used and every woman can use to keep her man.IF A MAN IS UNFAITHFUL…THE WOMAN OBVIOUSLY HAS LOST GROUND AND HASN’T BEING DOING HER JOB WELL. Let me share with you some Strategies I feel can be of help.I call it….

DELILAH STRATEGIES:

DELILAH STRATEGY 1: SMELL GOOD; LOOK GOOD. Don’t dress in wrapper after you are married.When your husband comes back from work, what does he see? A woman wrapped like and old, worn out woman? But that is not what he sees at work on those lovely secretaries and co workers.

Don’t smell soup or smoke when he comes back from work.Smell good, romantic and be on your sexiest bump shot so that when he comes home, he wondering and staring at you.Prayer won’t keep your husband at home.This will!…prayers
come later on once you have done that.

DELILAH STRATEGY 2: COOK WELL. Your husband should WANT TO COME BACK HOME TO EAT YOUR MEALS.All that talk about the maid does that is foolish.After good sex, a good meal is what ANY MAN wants from his wife.Will your husband be able to call his friends over to his house to eat your meal? Sister, learn how to cook.Stop making excuses.

DELILAH STRATEGY 3: BE HIS NUMBER ONE ENCOURAGER: No one should praise your husband more than you.NO ONE.Let him know that you are his number one cheer leader.Ask him about his business.Don’t advice him, just listen to him. Listening is the biggest encouragement he can receive from you.

Tell him sometimes: “My lord, saviour of my body, the one who leads me…i admire you” Do you know that is scriptural?Submission is a charm. it activates love naturally.

Your husband is not your friend or partner, he is your Lord.Give him the honour.

DELILAH STRATEGY 4: GIVE HIM GOOD SEX. Let every sexual time be one he would remember. Read the book ART OF MARRIAGE by Tim Lahaye. It would be of great help. Don’t take your sexual lief for granted. Many do. I have talked with not less than 5 married men who complain about their wives inexperience and refusal to learn about sex.

Sex is an art.It can be learnt..but please do it in marriage. There is less guilt and you are on the side of God.God watches married people have sex.And he is disappointed when any of them goes away unfulfilled.He created it and believes that if we do it properly we can get it right.

All the best.

SIGNS YOU ARE STILL MISSING YOUR EX – AND HOW TO DEAL WITH IT!

1. SOCIAL MEDIA LASHING: You trash talk him on twitter and Facebook.

2. OVERDRESSING AND OVERCOMPENSATING:
You dress up in hopes you will run into him and when you do see him, you make your life seem really awesome..because, obviously, you are better off without him and he should see what you are missing!

Yet, you have got to realize what you are missing in making him the center of your life.

3. YOU COMPARE EVERYONE TO HIM:
Even if you think you are ready to start dating again, every time you meet a new guy, you make a list of all the ways he doesn’t measure up to your ex. Once you are really over him, you will measure men on their own merits.

4. YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN THAT HOT DUDE GIVING YOU THE EYE:
You have men throwing themselves at you left and right, eager to love the pain away. When you ex calls, however, you pick up right away.

5. YOU STILL CYBER STALK HIM:
The other day you while you wandering about Facebook, you noticed that a cute girl had left a flirtatious message on your ex wall. So you attempted to hack into her Facebook account, and scoured the Facebook pages of your ex’s mom, sister and grand mother for even the subtlest mention of either you or a new romance. I want you to know: This is unhealthy…and possibly illegal.

6. YOU ARE STILL HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX:
You still meet to have sex. Ex sex isn’t always a terrible idea..but it usually is. If you have recently broken up, you can’t have sex and expect that you won’t remain emotionally involved. So, straighten up.

7. YOU STILL HABOUR THE (NOT SO) SECRET FANTASY THAT THE TWO OF YOU STILL HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER:
And this misguided belief is keeping you from living life or at least giving anyone new a chance to love you. While no one can really know what the future holds, it’s best to remember that break ups happen for a reason..And often, that reason was a good one. If you are holding back on your future, it is likely that you are stuck in the past.

Going through a terrible relationship break up can appear so crushing. You might believe you will never ever get over them. Or that your life will never be the same again. Although those feelings are very real in the first place, there is no reason to believe that you can’t get over it and move on.

Begin with closure.When a relationship comes to a horrible end, particularly if you are the one that was dumped just about all people need and require closure. This means that you have acknowledged the reality that relationship is over and you are ready to go on. You need to say it out loud and in your mind that the relationship is finished and believe it. If you believe there is a chance that you will get back together with your ex you will never be able to go on with your life.

SHOULD I ACCEPT HIS PROPOSAL?

GEORGE ESSIEN ANSWERS YOUR QUESTION 149

My name is Itoro Effiong. I’m through with with my University education and I am presently working.The person who proposed marriage to me is doing his NYSC and just got a scholarship to go abroad for his Masters.He insists he wants to get married to me before going abroad. I love him, though.The issue is that this guy was actually sponsored by my parents through his University education. My parents know that we are close but don’t know of his intention to marry me before he goes for his Masters.

Please advice me on the kind of decision to make. I want to know the kind of decision to make in this case. Should I accept his proposal for marriage or allow him to go and come back?

ANSWER:

It is obvious that he loves you and wants to give you assurance that he is yours. It all depends on how much you love him. You may proceed with the marriage. At the same time, you may wish to tell him that you would wait for him. Afterall, the Masters program will not go beyond 1 or 2 years.

So pray about it. Which ever decision you make will end up being good, especially when you are sure he is the kind of man that you would want to settle with. All the best.

It Matters Whom You Marry

THE BEST OF SINGLES’ QUOTES BY GEORGE ESSIEN – PART 1

(1.) When a woman becomes a wife in attitude and character,HER HUSBAND SHOWS UP.The reason why most women are not married on time is because they are not yet wives; they are still girls.

(2.) Men marry wives,but sleep with girls.

(3). Don’t marry from where you are coming from; marry from where you are going to

(4). Don’t ignore the signs.Address them quickly.
Confrontation reveals character.It is the platform for the display of emotional maturity

(5). Don’t marry a ‘dutiful’ wife…..marry A FRIEND.

(6). God tests every relationship at the point of its motive.

(7). She WON’T GROW SLIMMER in the future.If your preference is for slim,sleek ladies, go for that.And if it is for fat, round ladies,go for that.That lady won’t add weight in the future…In fact, LOOK AT HER MOTHER AND YOU CAN DETERMINE HOW SHE WOULD LOOK LIKE PHYSICALLY

(8). Don’t marry anyone if you are NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED to the person.
Don’t spiritualize everything.Physical chemistry is important TOO

(9). DON’T pray in the same room with your fiance(e).That is not being spiritual.That is foolishness.You will end up both having sex!There is a thin line between SPIRITUALITY and SEXUALITY.Both are intercourse.

(10). Avoid dating people who want you to handle their emotional issues. The moment you send yourself on a rescue mission that relationship is doomed for failure.

(11).When a man marries a GOOD WIFE, he is very happy;
When he marries a BAD WIFE, HE BECOMES A PHILOSOPHER
Be careful who you marry.

(12).If you are a lady past 30 and now desperately moving from one singles program to the other, I really don’t pity you. Your husband showed up in your 20s but he didnt look like it and you ignored him.No pity, girl.

(13).A man can love a woman and not have sex with her; and yet not love a woman and still ‘enjoy’ sex with her.
Not so with a woman. Most women have sex with men they love; or have sex with a man and then expect the man to ‘love’ them.

(14).Love is not just a feeling, it is a knowledge; a knowledge that grows over time. Feelings fluctuate and are not too dependable.If you are ever in doubt whether you love that person, give it time.Time reveals true love

(15).Remember that WIFE means

W – Wonderful
I – Investment
F – For
E – Enjoyment

(16).SELFISHNESS from either one of the couple is responsible for any sour relationship. Wherever or whenever there is a break up or divorce,check closely PRIDE played a major role.

(17).People who have been hurt,hurt others.People who have been loved ,love others

(18).The THREAT and FEAR of break up is more tormenting than the ACTUAL break up

(19).It’s foolishness to disconnect from your friends because you are in a relationship with someone.If the person takes a walk,what would you do without your friends?Man looking at his girlfriend having a headache sitting at a tab

(20).When peace is replaced with doubt in your heart concerning that relationship,then God is saying something.It’s time to pause and think.

(21).Love means many things.But one thing I know love isn’t is that love isnt uncertain

(22).Some people don’t deserve the love you give them.Give no person your heart, only your head until you are married.

(23).Don’t run away from confrontation. A confrontation will give you revelation. To walk away or to continue becomes clearer. Too much quarrel that ends with physical abuse is a danger sign. It is saying , ‘Quit!’

(24).Young man, don’t marry a woman that cannot COOK.

THE BEST OF SINGLES’ QUOTES BY GEORGE ESSIEN – PART 1

HOW TO WASTE A WOMAN’S TIME

In February I was in Ebonyi State to train some lecturers at the Ebonyi State University on the United Nations 21st Century Facilitation methods for Communicators.It was a 2 day intensive training.A very exhaustive class.After one of those days, I returned to my hotel to rest and prepare for another session when I received a call.

“Hello”, my voice dulled in response.I was tired.I had been speaking for over 3 hours and needed at least a 30 minute rest.

“It is me, Chioma.”, the voice at the other end said.

“Chioma?”I asked.” Plese Chioma who?”

“Yeah, Chioma Nnamdi.Chioma of Revival Fellowship.Chioma of University of Uyo.I used to date one Daniel Bassey on campus.Remember? I have been following your posts on Facebook.You are doing a great work.” She answered.

Somehow, I remembered and forced myself to seat up.”Yeah, Chioma. I think I remember you.How is Daniel? Are you guys married now?”

There was a pause.Then an emotion soaked voice responded, “No…we broke up last week.”

“Broke up? Like for real or for one of those stunts?”

“George, it is for real.He just suddenly told me that he had gone for introduction for another lady, that he was sorry and that he wished me the best.He said that God told him that we were not supposed to be husband and wife , and that he did not know how to tell me.So he had to meet this lady whom he was sure was his wife and start a relationship.He said that their parents had met and preparations for marriage was on the move.”

“What!” I exclaimed. “After, 10 years? I don’t believe this. What happened.Please can you give me his number?That marriage has to be opposed. He cannot just wake up one morning and make such decision.Please give me his number.”

Chioma said silently with a confidence that was previously not there. “I won’t. And please don’t bother to reach out to him. Such is life.I just called to say that I have been reading your stuff on Facebook and that you are doing a great work.”

“Yeah, thanks.”

I was still stunned. I didn’t know what to say to her, and come to think about it this Daniel was my friend from way back.Why would he do such a thing? Why would he waste such a lady’s time? That lady had given him everything: her time, her youth, her emotions, and yes her body. Yes it was no marriage, but 99 percent close to marriage. What would you say when a lady cooks for you, washes your clothes, gives you sex, rents a house for you, believes in your singing ministry and waits for you?What would you call that?

Daniel and I shared the same room during our university days in 2004.I remember that relationship from back them. They were the envy of everyone. It seemed nothing under heaven could break them.

Daniel used to sing in the fellowship that we both went.And O he could sing! She could sing too! So most times she backed him up.This two walked everywhere together. They went to minister together.Even after campus days, I heard she went for service and still came back to him.She got a low paying job but was still committed to him. Daniel didn’t have a job.

There was a time during those days when one fellowship pastor was after Chioma. Daniel fought tooth and nail to sabotage that possibility. He even challenged the fellowship pastor publicly. In 2010, I heard that man of God got married to a friend of Chioma.

And now in 2013, almost 10 years, this so called anointed singing brother was a taking a walk….and no,not just taking a walk, marrying someone else!

That was devilish.

Look, personally I believe that all those long relationships are a sheer waste of time. If you are in one,I suggest that you move on. A man who wants to marry you will do everything in his power to do it quickly.

Men waste time with women because they get free sex.Free money.Free YOU.That is the bitter truth. I have seen poor folks do the impossible , get married to the girl of their dreams because sex was ‘stayed’ from the relationship. The sex drive moved the young man to move and make the wedding happen. When we move, providence moves too.

Is it possible for campus relationships to result in marriage? Yes, I can testify of a few…but the percentage is still very infinitesimal.

As young people our values are different.Our values are simple and youngish; but as we grow older and see responsibilities ahead of us we see things differently. Our taste change. Our choices also change. Most campus relationships don’t survive through.The ones that do are from sheer determination.

Now 31, Chioma seems hopeless.The other day, I was on my knees praying when Chioma came to my mind.I had to pray for her. She had devoted 10 years of her youthful time hoping on Daniel.

Are you doing that? Young woman, you can walk away today.And yes start all over again.

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HOW TO PUBLISH YOUR BOOK with GEORGE ESSIEN

sms AUTHOR, your name, email & location to 08187133153

Are you a writer? Are you one who has books yet unpublished and desperately want them published? Have you been cheated by a printer or publisher before and given a low quality book? Do you want to publish other people and make handsome profits from the venture?

You don’t have to struggle any more. On the Saturday,23rd of February,2013, I want to help just 20 intending authors.

Here is what I will show you:

1. How to know the exact amount you need to publish your book no matter the number of pages

2. How to handle the printing yourself with the aid of printers(the Engineers)

3. The different kinds of qualities that you can go for

4.How to publish and print other things like Calendars, Wedding cards and Programs etc.

Practical sessions will be at the printing press and all secrets would be revealed to you.

Then for those who want to polish their written works, I will show them the following:

1. Editing/ Proof reading. (How to Spot for Mistakes)

2. Getting powerful endorsements and comments for your book.

3. Strategic Launching.

4. How to create a soft copy of your book and sell it on Amazon.com

5. How to use your blog and Facebook to sell your books.

6. How to design a blog.

7. How to create other formats of your book that can increase your stream of income.

Now what would it take to be part of this. Do the following:

1. sms AUTHOR, your name, email and location to 08187133153

2. Prepare to be at Beton Cooks, Opposite former Mr Biggs, Ikot Ekpene Road, Uyo on Saturday, 23 Feb, 2013 by 10am. It would one full day of exposure and learning.You may also call 08187133153 for directions. Please call only after you have sent the sms. I can work with only 20 authors per batch.

3. Registration: N5000. Payment should be made at the venue.

4. If you have your manuscripts come along with it.

Venue can only accommodate 20 participants. Early sending of that sms is important.

You will have money back guarantee if you are not satisfied at what you receive. What do you have to lose?Take action Now!
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How To Publish Your Book with GEORGE ESSIEN

5 REASONS YOU SHOULD NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX

1. HOW MANY COUPLES REALLY GET BACK TOGETHER?
Sure some couples get back together and make it work, but how many examples are there?Sincerely very few.The worst thing to do is to think of returning back to your Vomit.

2 .PEOPLE DON’T CHANGE EASILY. And that is true.What made you break up before would not suddenly go away.

3.THE PERSON COULDN’T KEEP YOU AROUND. Don’t settle for somebody who couldn’t keep u around in the first place

4. WHAT WAS THE REASON IT BROKE?It didn’t work out in the first place for a reason.

5. WHY NOT MOVE ON?Living in the past prevents u from moving on.You don’t make progress looking backwards

5 REASONS YOU SHOULD NOT SLEEP WITH A MARRIED MAN

(1) WHEN THE CHIPS ARE DOWN, HE’D GO FOR HIS WIFE & ABANDON YOU:
A man can love a woman and not have sex with her; and yet not love a woman and still ‘enjoy’ sex with her.How so stupid it is to believe that he is really yours!

(2)IF THE MARRIED WOMAN PRAYS FOR YOU, YOU WILL BE CURSED :
This is especially if the woman is faithful to God, if she never slept other women’s husbands. Her prayers get to God.Those prayers touch God.Some barren women’s issues are traceable to this grave sin.Some women are not married because of this or have unfaithful husbands because of this.

(3)WHEN YOU GET MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE WOULD SLEEP WITH YOUR OWN HUSBAND:

It is all a matter of sowing and reaping. Some bad girls already know this, that is why they rarely ever complain about what their spouse do…just that they would prefer that the man doesn’t let them know about the lady. Women who say, “All men cheat” are usually culprits. That is their own defensive way of saying “I shouldn’t care less because I know what I did to married men.”

(4)YOUNG WOMAN,YOU ARE DOING IT FOR THE MONEY.IT IS NOT FOR LOVE:
Or would you really sincerely say it isn’t? A particular lady said , “Well, married men know how to take care of women”. Is that so? Why should he take care of you and not his wife now that he has money?Is that fair?

(5)IF YOU GET PREGNANT, AND YOU KEEP IT, THE CHILD WILL STILL BE ILLEGITIMATE: How so sad. Many children suffer because of the stupidity of their mothers. I know of a number.

Be single but not stupid.

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HOW TO BE A MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER

FOR ONLY 7 PEOPLE: LEARN.SPEAK.EARN

I put together my first public seminar at YABATECH,Lagos in May 19, 2000.That is 13 years ago.A long time in deed.I have horned my speaking skills all these many years.In 2005, I went fully professional depending solely on what I earned as a Speaker and Writer.And I have not done badly. People watch me on their Television Set every Thursday and I have made many National radio featuring.Even the Nation Newspaper recognized me as a Motivational Speaking Professional.

A lot of people meet me and say they want to learn how to not just speak but speak very powerfully.They want to know how they can become as dynamic and effective in speaking as I have been.And yes,I have been of tremendous help to very many.

I think I can also be of help to YOU.

I want to work with just 7 people.You heard me right – just 7 and no more.The second condition is that these 7 people must be in Akwa Ibom State or if they are far away must be willing to spare one full weekend with me as I share with them the following.

1.How To Overcome any form of Stage Fright or Glossophobia, the nervousness of the tongue.

2.How To Create YOUR own Atmosphere and Influence people through your dynamic speeches.

3.How to develop inspiring speeches that can MOVE any audience.The use of stories, illustrations and drama.

5. 7 Elements that facilitates effective Communication

6. 12 ways to Persuade Any Audience

7. 4 ways to Counter Manipulative Persuaders

8. 8 Ways to Interest an audience

9. Preparing a speech(Speech Writing)

10. How to package and sell your Speaking Services(The Business of Motivational Speaking)

In this weekend training, you will be exposed to videos of the very best in the industry.Free audios and ebooks would be given to you. The weekend will also have practical sessions and group interactions. All 7 speakers will be subsequently mentored and monitored by me a full one year.

Yes, it is a full package from me personally. But I will be working with only 7. The big question is how do you become a part of these 7 lucky speakers who would be mentored by me for the next 1 year. Here’s what to do:

1. Sms SPEAKER , add your name & location to 08187133153

2. Make the payment of the sum of N10,000 to Fidelity Bank. Account Name: George Essien. Account Number: 6013498428

2. Once payment is done, the teller number, your name, email and location should be sent to number 08187133153.

3.Only 7 people can be accommodated for this batch so all payments should be made before Friday the 1st of Feb 2013.Amount at the venue will be N12,000.

ONE MORE THING: I have decided to put a money back guarantee.Once you come to the venue a certain form would be given to you. That form will have the condition that if you are not satisfied you can ask for a refund. I , George Essien, would handle the entire sessions and would guide you through the process.

So what do you have to lose.If you want to really do PROFESSIONAL SPEAKING , let me help you.No one will do better than me for you.That is not a sales pitch brag but a commitment.Like I said it is not for every one.

I will be delighted to work with you and hopefully you with me. So let us do it. Venue : Beton Cooks, Ikot Ekpene Road, Uyo. Date: Fri 1st Feb 2013 to Sunday 3rd Feb 2013. Time: 4pm(Fri). 10am(Sat). 4pm(Sun)

Please come with your proof of payment.