1. SOCIAL MEDIA LASHING: You trash talk him on twitter and Facebook.
2. OVERDRESSING AND OVERCOMPENSATING:
You dress up in hopes you will run into him and when you do see him, you make your life seem really awesome..because, obviously, you are better off without him and he should see what you are missing!
Yet, you have got to realize what you are missing in making him the center of your life.
3. YOU COMPARE EVERYONE TO HIM:
Even if you think you are ready to start dating again, every time you meet a new guy, you make a list of all the ways he doesn’t measure up to your ex. Once you are really over him, you will measure men on their own merits.
4. YOU HAVE NO INTEREST IN THAT HOT DUDE GIVING YOU THE EYE:
You have men throwing themselves at you left and right, eager to love the pain away. When you ex calls, however, you pick up right away.
5. YOU STILL CYBER STALK HIM:
The other day you while you wandering about Facebook, you noticed that a cute girl had left a flirtatious message on your ex wall. So you attempted to hack into her Facebook account, and scoured the Facebook pages of your ex’s mom, sister and grand mother for even the subtlest mention of either you or a new romance. I want you to know: This is unhealthy…and possibly illegal.
6. YOU ARE STILL HAVING SEX WITH YOUR EX:
You still meet to have sex. Ex sex isn’t always a terrible idea..but it usually is. If you have recently broken up, you can’t have sex and expect that you won’t remain emotionally involved. So, straighten up.
7. YOU STILL HABOUR THE (NOT SO) SECRET FANTASY THAT THE TWO OF YOU STILL HAVE A FUTURE TOGETHER:
And this misguided belief is keeping you from living life or at least giving anyone new a chance to love you. While no one can really know what the future holds, it’s best to remember that break ups happen for a reason..And often, that reason was a good one. If you are holding back on your future, it is likely that you are stuck in the past.
Going through a terrible relationship break up can appear so crushing. You might believe you will never ever get over them. Or that your life will never be the same again. Although those feelings are very real in the first place, there is no reason to believe that you can’t get over it and move on.
Begin with closure.When a relationship comes to a horrible end, particularly if you are the one that was dumped just about all people need and require closure. This means that you have acknowledged the reality that relationship is over and you are ready to go on. You need to say it out loud and in your mind that the relationship is finished and believe it. If you believe there is a chance that you will get back together with your ex you will never be able to go on with your life.
SINGLE BUT NOT STUPID 
Great post ! all the signs you’ve posted here are relevant and true! I’ve experienced these symptoms with friends of mine & they do almost all these things. Ladies we need to get over our ex’s, they are our ex for a reason.. right? I love your subheadings I think they work well for the economy of your blog post.
The creepiest but truest sign is when a women looks for traits of her EX in other men. Don’t do that! Subconsciously it might happen but we must be aware of this. My guy friend Tom recently started dating a new girl and she is physically a twin to his ex girlfriend. Everybody who knew his ex girlfriend has a confused look on their faces when they see his new girlfriend because she is just SO similar. 😛
Great thoughts Nicole. While, I must admit that letting go and forgetting your ex might be a bit very difficult, it is something that both the female folk – and male folk should endeavour to do. Checking your blog out. I must say that it is cool too. Cheers,.